You remind me of a boy I know and his situation.

Anyways. I have a guy I like right now, I guess my situation is worse than yours. And I feel hurt when I think about him, as well.

When I get over guys I:

1. This may sound…superficial, but I find another guy to like. Not throw myself at him, but like. I need another guy to realize that this one was no good for me. Even if your feelings for the second girl isn’t as strong, you’ll automatically hang on since this person makes you happier than you were with the previous girl.

2. I would think about all the bad things and how it’s gonna just hurt me in the long run. And you’re probably in high school, or so, and high school relationships and heartbreak always seem like the end of the world, but it’s really not, even if it feels like it.

But mainly, I would say making an effort to not like her, or not talk to her helps. I dated this boy for a little more than a year. And I got cheated on. I cried for a weeks and weeks. But once I found that there were better guys, I trained myself to stop thinking about him as much. I mean, you’re not happy, right? And you want to be. No one wants to be hurt this way. And after a month with no contact, I could talk to him again, and even not have enough interest in him to keep a conversation anymore.

Overall I say the best thing is to slowly push yourself away from them. Quitting cold turkey is HARD. Find a girl like that in another girl. There are plenty of girls out there, but this doesn’t mean to throw yourself at them, because that will only make you seem desperate and “thirsty”, but just try to distance yourself from her, it helps.

Delete her from Facebook/Myspace/AIM/whatever. And if you guys go to the same school, just ease it. Make new friends, to forget about her. So you won’t have to think, oh I’ll never be with her.

I think I ranted a bit too much. But you get my overall point though, right? Hope I helped!

And look, don’t feel so down. I’m sure there’s at least one girl out there who likes you. There’s so many people at your school. You never know.

“Don’t frown because you never know who’s falling in love with your smile.”

Good luck, buddy.